bren antrim ([info]brenantrim) wrote,
@ 2009-07-06 21:56:00
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Current mood: nostalgic

Contacts
Hm, who knew.  Just the other day (May 13th, in fact, as it's his birthday) I was wondering what ever happened to my brother Bobby.  Then, hey, he contacted me.  Through LJ.  Guess I should update more than every six months, eh?  And hey, his son Patrick, that angelic little blond toddler I remember, is all grown up and looking amazingly like my uncle Vince.  And on his facebook photo, he's holding an angelic little blond toddler that looks a heck of a lot like he did over twenty years ago.

I am getting so. freaking. old.

Still, it's nice to make contact with family.  A little unnerving, given that my family history has been anything but sunshine and roses, but really kind of nice.  The strange thing?  My nephew's living in the same town where I was offered a job in 1995.  So we might have made contact then if I hadn't taken the job in Texas instead.  See what happens when you try to avoid rainy weather and opt for sunshine?  An extra decade and a half goes by before contact is once again made.  Huh!  The even stranger thing?  My brother sounds so much like he did in 1986 that it's freaky.  I can hear his voice in his email.

Little bemused now.  Feeling hopeful and hesitant and happy all at the same time.
Bren, wandering away again




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[info]kronette
2009-07-08 11:20 am UTC (link)
*squishy hugs* And here you are, posting just a few days after my birthday. Sometimes I wish I had that kind of relationship with my family - very, very far away.

You take care of you. *hugs* Jenny

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[info]brenantrim
2009-07-09 01:08 am UTC (link)
HAPPY J-DAY! (fireworks explode - virtual champagne bubbles) I hope it was a good one? I got a hilarious response from my nephew (he didn't notice the subject line that said, 'hello from your aunt') essentially asking me who the hell I was. I'm still snickering. Far away is one thing - complete incomprehension is another.

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[info]kronette
2009-07-18 11:58 pm UTC (link)
Hiya sweetie. Things are leveling out after a very rough three weeks or so. Guilt-tripping mom because she completely forgot my birthday (not set it aside, not remembered it later, but sis called her and reminded her, and mom Had No Clue). The scary thing is? I didn't mind. I still don't, not really. It's given me the break I needed from staying close to the family I have left. Now I know it's not important where I am.

Take care of you. I do think of you randomly, hoping you're okay. It usually brings a smile to my face, so I hope you feel the small burst of joy :)

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